We all face a little hiccup on our path to creating an epic, goddess glowing life, don’t we? We easily get in our own way and feel deflated and fight to get out of our own way, but when we do it’s gold.
Just last week I was in a foggy haze of emotion and I probably sat in it for a day too long, but hey, I honor my ups and downs because to me they are a golden staircase and each emotion and old belief that I face I dive straight into like a lifeguard ready to pull out my glowing self! I actually love the process of healing and releasing. I get so much more clear and know my inner goddess that much more.
Last week, the first part to this 4 week blog series, we spoke about the 4 keys to a super happy life and what is so powerful is went back to the 4 steps I shared with you and had my miracle moment where I shifted out of my funk and I got out of my own damn way!
I teach women how to move from massive crippling fear to complete exhaling freedom and flow in my 30 Day Goddess Boss Academy (which you get access to for free when you join the Goddess Boss Team – only for women who want to live naturally healthy, heal emotions that hold them back and work with essential oils and spirit) and the transformation for the women has been incredible!
Some share that they have finally found their intuition and now understand faith and trusting the universe. HELLO this is the best gift you can ever give yourself, stopping the struggle and tune in. See about the Goddess Boss Team here.
Are you totally roadblocked from your desires? Do you feel like you are just bumping up against a wall at every turn or you go to take one step and you BOOM a a block shoots up. Wide eyed you look at this block like it is a scary monster and run the other way…back to comfort?!
Let’s talk about what you can start to do to get out of your own way and live the desires that thump in your heart!
I believe we need to be so aware of and take responsibility for your current situation and when you can pull up your super cute, goddessy panties, drop the victim stories and see that our world is a total reflection of our thoughts, words and actions, we can stop and decided if we appreciate our disconnect from our inner goddess or if we want to make the decision to live completely from her guidance – that is following the plan the Universe / Spirit has for you. Your desires.
Our desires are brought to life by us being in our state of pleasure.
You are not these blocks, goddess!
A goddess when in her temple, she is always thriving. She is always walking with champagne bubbles floating behind her and she wants to be seen and heard.
Now, when a goddess is out of her temple, watch out. She is destructive, completely out of flow with her desires and feels overwhelmed, confused, like she is at her wits end and just flat out exhausted.
Have you been feeling exhausted? Like you are even too tired to work on your dream or add some epsom salts and a essential oils to a bath?!
Then girl, you must stop and reconnect to your inner well and fill it back up because it is DRY!
If the well within in you is dry it a signal to get into communion with Spirit and remember your truth. This dry well syndrome is also telling you to love yourself more and do things that light up your love tank – think daily bubble baths, dancing, painting, journaling, signing, cooking! Just stop and ask yourself, “what does my well need so it fills up?” and the first answer is for you.
This is my simple plan to get out of your own way:
- Embrace a strong love for yourself. Meaning let all the judgements and fears go and trust your SOUL. You must look at all your beauty and FEEL it…try mirror work.
- Explore your desires! These desires are within you for you to bring them to the world. They aren’t just “fun ideas” they are your roadmap to greatness!
- Let your desires move through you with so much pleasure. Pleasure ignites your inner goddess, which flips on the magnet within you and radiates outward, attracting strongly!
- Follow your instincts, goddess! A goddess in her temple lives a great life when she follows her instincts and she does this well by saying NO to the things that don’t light her up. Simple.
Can you take time and find pleasure in your pleasure?
This will help your passion become bigger than your fears and you will bust through all the limitations with a fierce energy of radiance and probably a few swear words.
It is time to step aside and get out of your way so you can speak your voice. So many women are muting their own voices, the whole reason they are on this planet to speak up, share their missions, openly speak to the ones they love and have their needs met and many do not even feel worthy enough of their own voice.
Not here, goddess – you are safe to speak and be abundant in all your deepest desires!
Enjoy getting out of your own way today. It must be today because we need you.
P.S. Without getting all oily on you, the best essential oils to use to get out of your own way are: Slim & Sassy (for moving through self-sabotage and massive doubt), Juniper Berry (bye bye fears and hello fearless goddess), Balance (stable action, forward moving progression because it helps you shed your procrastination).